We understand that the class seems to have been split into the "popular" group, the "non-popular" group, but in my most honest opinion, I don't think so, really. It's just that, well, some people seek popularity. They need it. And tada, they somehow become popular gradually... We know...I can understand the feeling of being ostracized and despised...
And I put myself in your shoes. I don't seek for fame. Neither do I want popularity. But it all comes down to your attitude. YOUR ATTITUDE. Before acting, CONSIDER what kind of person you may portray to others if you do that. Do you seem self-centred? Boastful? Greedy? Overdemanding? This is part and parcel of life. We all have to think about ourselves, and reflect about our actions and thoughts.
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Popularity has TWO different kinds too. One, the notorious kind. Two, the NICE kind. To achieve the first kind, simple, just be nasty. To achieve the second kind, your ATTITUDE is important, your behavior is important too.
But I don't get why POPULARITY is something many people WANT. Eventually, they will become too obsessed with it. It will become an OBSESSION. And it WILL scare your friends away. Popularity, is not something someone with a right mindset will want to actually achieve. Someone with the right mindset will just want to live their lives, as a proper person.
I hate to repeat myself. I just want people to know how precious PEACE, UNDERSTANDING, and FORGIVENESS is. I'm not being naive. I just don't want chaos. I don't want anymore of this drama, because our class isn't a DRAMA WORKSHOP CLASS. We don't need to act, or even create some CLIMAX like we do when we write. We don't need blogs as a platform to make others TRULY understand our feelings. Afterall, we are humans, and we have our 5 senses. USE THEM. Make sure you communicate the ORIGINAL way. :) I can truly understand how it feels like to be "unpopular", but trust me, change your attitude a little bit, forgive and forget (we ALL will), and we will ALL love you.
If you're angry, you're sad, you're happy, you're annoyed, you're irritated, why not talk to anyone of us? We will listen. We ALL will.
No more names-calling, no more vulgarities hurled at others, NO MORE backstabbing or trying to cause havoc , whatsoever. We're not primary one kids. We're not those kids who go around saying "IF YOU DON'T ________, I tell her not to be your friend." We're not.
1L, we can do this. You too :)
COMMUNICATE, THE ORIGINAL WAY! :D
Remember, we are there for one another. Forever.
As we shall indeed last forever.
Remember, we are there for one another. Forever.
As we shall indeed last forever.
-WWT. And, we did not make this post to anger anyone. We, just want communication. The RIGHT way and not the abused one.
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